Choose Happiness Together
Happiness in marriage doesn’t just happen—it’s built, on purpose.
We believe one of the most powerful things couples can do is get intentional about joy. Not just surviving together, but creating happiness together.
Research shows that couples who actively cultivate positive experiences—small, medium, and big—feel closer, fight less, and recover faster from stress.
The good news? It doesn’t take grand vacations or big changes. It starts with simple daily choices:
Celebrate small wins: Finished a crazy week? High five. Survived a tough parenting day? Order pizza and laugh about it.
Plan fun on purpose: Don’t wait for “someday.” Schedule that date night, hike, or coffee run.
Dream together: Talk about your next adventure, no matter how small. Shared dreams fuel connection.
Choose gratitude: Every day, notice something good about each other—and say it out loud.
It’s not about pretending life is perfect. It’s about seeing joy as something you create together, even when life is messy.
Actionable Tip: Today, ask your spouse one simple question: "What’s one small thing we could do this week just to be happy together?" Then make it happen—on purpose.