Replenish Your Connection

What if sexual intimacy wasn’t just a moment—but a way of living together?

Tammy Hill’s Replenishment Model of Sexuality invites couples to rethink intimacy in marriage. Instead of seeing sex as a goal to check off or a rare occasion, it becomes an ongoing source of energy, connection, and renewal—a way of living more “orgasmically” every day.

Here’s the heart of it:

• Stay Connected, Not Goal-Driven: Instead of focusing solely on orgasm, couples are encouraged to linger in the state of arousal and emotional connection—enjoying the journey, not rushing the destination.

• Live Flirtatiously: Small moments of affection, teasing, and playful connection throughout the day keep emotional and physical intimacy flowing naturally.

• Practice Generosity: Prioritize your partner’s pleasure and emotional fulfillment—giving without keeping score strengthens the bond.

When couples live with emotional and physical connection simmering just beneath the surface, they experience what Tammy calls living orgasmically—a life where intimacy fuels energy, joy, and deeper partnership both in and out of the bedroom.

Actionable Tip: Today, find one playful way to reconnect outside the bedroom—a flirty text, a long kiss, a whispered compliment.