Breathe, Then Connect
You don’t always need the perfect response in marriage.
Sometimes, what your relationship needs most...
is a pause.
A breath.
A moment of silence that isn’t filled with defensiveness, sarcasm, or problem-solving.
The truth is, most of us are way better at reacting than listening.
And our relationships pay for it.
But here’s what we’ve learned:
You can train yourself to pause.
You can practice not snapping.
You can slow down just enough to stay present—and connected.
Actionable Tip:
Next time you feel yourself gearing up to react…
Stop.
Take one slow breath.
And ask: What would connection look like right now?
Tune into Episode 68 of Marriage IQ to learn more!
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