Awkward Talking About Sex?

For many conservative religious women, talking openly about sex can feel awkward—or even off-limits. But here’s the thing: you can’t build sexual agency without finding your voice.

Empowered sexual language allows you to express your desires, set boundaries, and invite connection without shame. It’s not about rejecting your faith or your values—it’s about communicating them with clarity and kindness.

Try these examples Amanda Louder shared:

“I love being close to you, but right now doesn’t work for me. Can we plan for tomorrow?”

“I want to connect tonight—entice me.”

“I love you, but I need rest tonight. Can we plan something special this weekend?”

Small shifts in language create big shifts in intimacy.

Action Tip:

Choose one phrase from the list above—or write your own—and practice using it with your spouse.

See how it feels to express yourself clearly while staying emotionally connected.

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