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Sex & Intimacy

When desire, affection, or closeness feels out of sync, start here.

Physical intimacy is an important part of a healthy marriage, and it can be one of the hardest things for couples to talk about. Explore conversations and practical tools to understand desire differences, build vulnerability, and grow a more connected intimate life.

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I Thought Something Was Wrong

Explore the ideas behind “I Thought Something Was Wrong” and how this conversation may relate to marriage and relationships.

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The Physical Reasons Sexual Intimacy Can Be Hard with Kristen Damery

Learn about physical reasons sexual intimacy can be difficult and how couples can find help, with Kristen Damery.

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Sex, Faith, and Desire with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

Explore how faith, sexuality, and desire intersect in marriage, with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife.

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5 Ways to Build a Deeper, More Passionate Marriage

Discover five ways to build a deeper, more passionate marriage.

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Why Attraction Fades in Marriage with Andre Paradis

Explore the ideas behind “Why Attraction Fades in Marriage” and how this conversation may relate to marriage and relationships.

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Mastering Pleasure: Experts' Guide to Female Anatomy with Cindy Scharkey

Explore the ideas behind “Mastering Pleasure: Experts' Guide to Female Anatomy” and how this conversation may relate to marriage and relationships.

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The Most Common Sex Problems in Marriage (And Fixes) with Dr. Clifford & Loyce Penner

Explore the most common sexual problems couples face and practical ways to address them, with Dr. Clifford and Loyce Penner.

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How to Build a Healthy Sex Life in Marriage

Discover the building blocks of a healthy, satisfying sex life in marriage.

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What Sexy Marriage Radio Gets Right About Love and Sex with Dr. Corey Allan

Explore the ideas behind “What Sexy Marriage Radio Gets Right About Love and Sex” and how this conversation may relate to marriage and relationships.

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How to Communicate Desire in Marriage Without Conflict with Amanda Louder

Learn how to talk about desire in marriage without it turning into conflict, with Amanda Louder.

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Why Consent Still Matters in Marriage with Amanda Louder

Explore why consent still matters within marriage and how it builds safety and trust, with Amanda Louder.

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Real Men Are Sloths—Part 2: Why Slowing Down Is the Key to Her Desire

Learn why slowing down can be the key to her desire and a more connected intimate life.

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Women Feel This Way About Sex (But Don’t Say It)

Explore what many women feel about sex but don't often say, and how understanding it can improve intimacy.

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3 Reasons Couples Struggle with Sexual Desire with Amy & Greg Langford

Explore three common reasons couples struggle with sexual desire, with Amy and Greg Langford.

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How Money and Sex Affect Your Marriage with Dr. Jeff Hill

Explore how money and sex affect each other in marriage, with insights from Dr. Jeff Hill.

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Romance Woes and Wins With Expert Josie McEwen

Hear relationship expert Josie McEwen on what helps and hurts romance, with practical ideas for keeping it alive.

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No Girls Allowed: A Men’s Guide to Intimacy

A conversation for men about intimacy, connection, and what it takes to show up fully in marriage.

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Shall We Dance? The Art of Partnership in Dance and Love

Explore what partnership on the dance floor can teach couples about teamwork, trust, and moving together in love.

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6 Minutes? How Mindfulness Can Lead to More Fulfilling Sex

Discover how mindfulness can lead to a more present, connected, and fulfilling sexual relationship.

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The Art of Romance: Tips and Tricks for Keeping Intimacy Alive

Discover practical tips and ideas for keeping romance and intimacy alive in a long-term relationship.

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From Taboo to Insight: One Couple’s Journey to Deep Intimacy

Hear one couple's journey from taboo to insight, and what they learned about building deeper intimacy together.

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Testosterone Tango: The Dance of Male & Female Libido

Learn how testosterone influences libido for both men and women, and what it means for desire in your marriage.

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Why Men Want Sex and Women Need Love: Hormones & Connection

Learn how hormones like oxytocin shape connection, and why men and women can experience love and desire differently.

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Proposal Pro Secrets for Spicing Up Your Marriage with Ash Fox

Find creative ideas for adding romance and excitement to your marriage from proposal planner Ash Fox.

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How Secrets Ruin Trust and Intimacy in Marriage

Learn how secrets erode trust and intimacy in marriage, and what it takes to rebuild honesty.

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Why Date Nights Save Your Marriage (And How to Do Them Right)

Learn why date nights matter for your marriage and how to plan them in ways that truly build connection.

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Why Couples Drift Apart (The Hidden Death Spiral) with Dr. Bruce Chalmer

Explore the ideas behind “Why Couples Drift Apart (The Hidden Death Spiral)” and how this conversation may relate to marriage and relationships.

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Why You Can Love Each Other and Still Feel Alone with Dr. Bruce Chalmer

Learn why couples can love each other and still feel alone, and how to rebuild emotional connection, with Dr. Bruce Chalmer.

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How Pornography Affects Marriage (And How to Heal) with Ben & Malissa McKay

Learn how pornography can affect trust and intimacy in marriage, and the path toward healing, with Ben and Malissa McKay.

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Why Your Marriage Lost Its Spark—and How to Get It Back—with Amy & Greg Langford

Learn why a marriage can lose its spark and practical ways to bring it back, with Amy and Greg Langford.

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Keeping It Up With the Joneses: Love, Loss, and Intimate Connection

Hear how one couple navigated love, loss, and changes in their intimate connection, and what helped them keep it alive.

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Beyond the Mirror: Navigating Body Insecurities

Learn how body insecurities affect intimacy and how couples can support each other with acceptance and care.

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From Roommates to Soulmates: Reviving Connection Through Daily Rituals

Explore the ideas behind “From Roommates to Soulmates: Reviving Connection Through Daily Rituals” and how this conversation may relate to marriage and relationships.

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From Stale to Scintillating: A Tool for Breathing New Life into Your Marriage

Explore the ideas behind “From Stale to Scintillating: A Tool for Breathing New Life into Your Marriage” and how this conversation may relate to marriage and relationships.

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Striking the Perfect Balance: Mastering Individuality and Intimacy in Marriage

Explore the ideas behind “Striking the Perfect Balance: Mastering Individuality and Intimacy in Marriage” and how this conversation may relate to marriage and relationships.

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